Most parents don't realize they have legal rights when it comes to the data companies collect about their children. Federal law in the United States grants parents specific, meaningful rights — and understanding them can change how you approach digital privacy for your family.
COPPA: The Children's Online Privacy Protection Act
COPPA applies to websites and online services directed at children under 13. Under COPPA, covered companies must obtain verifiable parental consent before collecting personal information from children. They must provide parents with the ability to review the information collected, request deletion, and opt out of future collection. If a company covered by COPPA is collecting data on your child without your consent, you have grounds to demand deletion and file an FTC complaint.
State Laws That Go Further
Several states have enacted children's privacy laws that go beyond COPPA. California's COPPA addendum and the Age-Appropriate Design Code (AADC) model impose additional requirements on platforms likely to be accessed by minors. Knowing your state's laws can strengthen your position when making data requests.
How to Make a Data Deletion Request
Most major platforms have privacy request portals. For Google products, use myaccount.google.com. For Apple, use privacy.apple.com. For social media platforms, check the platform's Help Center under "Privacy" or "Data and Privacy." Your request should include: your child's name or username, the nature of the data you want deleted, and a reference to the applicable law (COPPA, CCPA, or your state's equivalent). Keep records of every request and every response. If a company fails to respond or refuses unreasonably, the FTC and your state attorney general's office are the next step.
